What do women want ?

A Question that haunted men from generation…

Well, we want EVERYTHING.

BUT the key is,

We want EVERYTHING IN MODERATION!

A little love:

Too much love leads to being taken for granted and loss of self-respect. on the other hand too little love forces her to search love somewhere else. If you lose self-respect you won't be able to love yourself. And if you can't love yourself why anyone else should love you? But don't be a narcissist. Don't be so self-involved that you would fail to understand the importance of the woman in your life. Don't make her feel unwanted.

A little admiration:

If you admire her every day for her looks or intelligence, it would probably sound fake. Also, your words will lose their charm. But when she gets ready just for you and you don't give a damn about it, Ouch ! It really hurts. No words are needed, just a little long loving look is enough guys. Let your eyes linger on her and eyes will do the talking.  

A little care :

Love is just a word, the real feeling is care. Yeah, you are probably busy in your own studies and career. We get it. But giving her a listening ear when she needs it, is not very difficult. Don't make her search for another shoulder to cry on.  

A little enthusiasm : 

You don't have to celebrate everything. Your week anniversary of buying shoes for her or a month anniversary of adding her on facebook is really not necessary. Giving surprises every week is gonna kill the spirit of giving surprises. Everyday special is equal to no day special. But at least don't forget her birthdays. And try to make it special. You can at least do that. Life is really mundane. Birthday parties, little weekend trips, a little compliment given at the right time, a little rose given on a random day is gonna make it wonderful for both of you.  

A little obsession :

You remember that initial phase of the relationship? When your day starts by thinking about that person, when you never forget to send a good morning message, when you can't keep your hands off each other… Isn't it the best of the times? Why to let go that feeling? It keeps the spark alive even if your relationship gets older. Like Lily Aldrin would say, " why say good bye to the good things?"

A little help : 

We are totally capable of handling our own problems. We don't want you to take care of everything for us. But a little help says that you care. You don't need to meddle into everything we do. But getting a help without needing to ask for it can go a long way in strengthening the relationship.

A little support :

Everyone makes mistakes. Nobody is perfect. It is very humane.  We don't want you to make decisions for us. But we just want a safe abode in your arms even if our decisions go wrong. We want you to support us without being judgmental.

A little humor : 

You don't need to be a clown or an entertainer. But having a sense of humor is kinda sexy. It needs certain intelligence and a sound mind. But don't use humor as a weapon to humiliate the other person. Spread smiles with your sense of humor and not wounds.

And always being there :

Don't forget this. Everything else is needed in moderation. But being there for her when she needs you the most is of utmost importance. Leaving her alone to cry or

Not supporting her when she is looking for it, is equivalent to a betrayal. It will make you lose her. May be not today, but eventually.  It will definitely create distance between your hearts. That distance you wouldn't be able to cover by saying sorry.

Do you think this is very tough ?

You know this is how 'Humans' are supposed to behave with their partners.

Hope you find the right balance in everything in your relationship.

Good luck.